A Question for the Void

How do I reconcile, in my heart, the fact that my partner is the father of a gender-expansive ten-year-old (whom I adore) who has had numerous urinary tract infections because kids at her school teased her about which bathroom she should be using because of the way she looks with the fact that I have loved ones who voted into office and continue to support an administration that just rolled back protections for her and others like her?